For relationship coaches

Stop guessing how their week went.
Understand it.

Your clients leave the session with homework. Then the week happens. Bonds helps them practice what you started, and shows you how it went.

Built with clinical psychologist Dr. Lior Kritzman, PhD and sex therapist Gila Bronner, CST.

78 seconds. Turn the sound on.

The proof

The report you read before a session.

A few minutes of practice a day turns into a letter in your client's own words: what they shared, what they committed to, and whether they actually tried it.

This sample uses the real report format, with a made-up client.

The part most practitioners read first.
Sample report · a made-up client
Emily's relationship summary
What you shared, in your own words

In the Describing Your Situation chapter, you wrote: "i feel alone in my relationship. he's always on his phone, he doesn't even greet me anymore, he's either working or scrolling and it's lonely."

In the Noticing Reactions chapter, you wrote: "i just go quiet. i don't want to start a fight so i say nothing, and then i'm annoyed about it for days."

→ What might be worth exploring

• A pattern of going quiet instead of saying what's wrong

• Feeling unseen when Daniel is on his phone

• Frustration that builds up because it isn't said out loud

See the full summary, including what she committed to
Your partner, as you described them
• You described Daniel as often working or on his phone.
• You wrote that he doesn't greet you anymore.
What you did in the app
✓ Completed the Describing Your Situation practice
✓ Completed the Noticing Reactions practice
✓ Completed the Sharing Inner Experience practice
✓ Completed the Asking What They Need practice
You keep coming back to this work, and that steady practice is what helps.
What you committed to and how it went
You took on 2 of the 3 actions suggested in the last 30 days, and reported trying 1 of them so far.
• Tell Daniel one thing that bothered you today, in 1 calm sentence, instead of saying nothing.
You took this on. You tried it, and said it felt uncomfortable.
• Greet Daniel when he gets home, before either of you picks up a phone.
You took this on. No update yet.
• Ask Daniel for 10 phone-free minutes after dinner.
You didn't take this on.
What we noticed
The app's reading of the above, not a fact and not a professional opinion.
• You feel unseen when Daniel is on his phone. (based on: Your answer in Describing Your Situation)
• When something bothers you, you go quiet to avoid a fight. (based on: Your answer in Noticing Reactions)
• The quiet does not settle it. You stay annoyed for days afterward. (based on: Your answer in Noticing Reactions)
• You did say 1 thing out loud this month, even though it felt uncomfortable. (based on: Your check-in on telling Daniel what bothered you)
You already know what you want to say, and you have started saying it. The next step is doing it again, even while it still feels hard.
Ideas you may want to try
Suggestions to consider, not instructions.
Notice: Notice when you start to go quiet. What happens in your body right before you shut down?
Reframe: Instead of thinking "if I speak up, we'll fight," try "saying something small now might stop days of feeling upset."
Focus: The greeting you took on is still open. Try it once this week, then check in on how it went.
Sharing this with you is always Emily's call. The summary is generated from her own activity in the app, and it's there to support your work, never to stand in for it.
Your client chooses to share it. Selected pilot partners get the latest report as a PDF in their portal. Otherwise, your client forwards it to you.
The gap

They leave your session. Then the week goes quiet.

The work that decides whether a relationship changes happens where you cannot see it. And your clients are already filling that silence with tools that know nothing about them.

You are working blind

2 weeks rebuilt from memory in 10 minutes, and memory keeps whatever happened last.

The work you send home disappears

Whether they tried it, and how it went, you only learn by asking.

The hardest things stay unsaid

People type what they can't say out loud. That material matters most, and it arrives late or never.

How the pilot works

Your clients do the practice. You see how it's going.

This is what selected pilot partners get. We're opening the portal to them first, and building it with them.

Pilot preview of the practitioner portal client list, with sample clients, status, last active and active days
Who joined, and when each client was active
Pilot preview of a sample client page with actions followed through and points from the latest report
Follow-through and their latest report, before a session
Pilot preview of a sample client report in the portal with a Download PDF button
Their latest report, as a PDF

Pilot preview, sample data

See it live. Apply, and we'll walk you through the portal on a 15-minute call.

Apply and see the portal

You invite them

Type a client's first name to get their own link, with a ready-to-send message and a short video. They choose to connect with you on a separate consent screen.

They practice, and they keep going

Built for the client who never does the exercise you gave them. 5 minutes a day, built like a game, so it actually happens. Their partner doesn't need to join.

You see how it went

Your portal shows who joined, when each client was active, and whether they followed through. Before a session, get their latest report as a PDF. After it, write one line on what they should work on next, and it becomes their next chapter.

Try it yourself

This is your client at 11pm, mid-argument.

Pick something a client might say. Bonds catches the tone, names what's underneath it, and rehearses the repair with them right then, in the moment it's happening, instead of waiting for your next session.

  • ✓Their call, every time. Clients connect with you on their own consent screen, and can disconnect anytime.
  • ✓Only what they agree to share. Their activity, actions, check-ins and report. Never their conversations.
  • ✓Private by default. Their conversations stay theirs, private and confidential. We never sell personal data.
Tone Simulator

How did that land?

Tap what your client might say
Pick a line above to see the feedback your client would get.
The backing

Built with a psychologist and a sex therapist.

Bonds isn't a wellness app with a psychologist on an advisory page. Dr. Lior Kritzman, PhD is a clinical psychologist and researcher, and our Chief Scientific Officer. He oversees the science behind every tool we build. Your clients won't practice anything you'd have to undo.

Pattern awareness

Patterns before they repeat

Clients learn to catch escalation early and respond differently.

Attachment-based

Familiar clinical grounding

Built with a clinical psychologist, in attachment-aware language.

Habit Science

5 minutes, repeated

Short daily practice, which is why the home exercises actually come back.

Lior Kritzman, Ph.D, clinical psychologist and Chief Scientific Officer at Bonds

"You don't need to know what's wrong to start understanding your relationship. Sometimes, you just need something that makes you think, 'That's us,' and helps you put words to what you've been feeling."

Lior Kritzman, Ph.DLicensed Clinical Psychologist and Chief Scientific Officer, Bonds
Gila Bronner, MPH, MSW, CST, certified sex therapist and Clinical Advisor for Intimacy at Bonds

"Intimacy is so hard to talk about because it touches our most sensitive and vulnerable places. It feels safer to stay silent, hoping that our partner will understand what we want, what we miss. But real closeness begins when we dare to put our feelings into words."

Gila Bronner, MPH, MSW, CSTCertified sex therapist (CST) and Clinical Advisor for Intimacy, Bonds
The pilot
Now accepting applications

What selected pilot partners get, and what we ask.

A 30-day free pilot, starting the day you get portal access. Then $49 a month for up to 10 clients, their Bonds access included. Your founding price stays locked for as long as you stay.

A 1-page pilot agreement, e-signed once. Cancel anytime.

What you get

  • A portal that shows who joined and when each client was active.
  • Whether each client followed through on the actions they took on.
  • Their latest report as a PDF, ready before a session.
  • After a session, one line from you on what to work on next becomes your client's next chapter in Bonds.
  • Personal invite links for up to 10 clients, with a ready-to-send message and a short video for them.
  • A ready-to-send launch kit to invite clients or your community, sent in your first week.
  • Your founding price locked for as long as you stay, under $5 per client a month.
  • A say in what we build next, like making Bonds follow your method.
  • A direct line to Lior Illouz, the founder, not a support queue.

What we ask

  • Invite 3 or more clients in your first 2 weeks.
  • Join 2 short feedback calls.
  • Be honest with us about what works and what doesn't.

Does your practice bill health insurance? Then the portal isn't for you yet. Your clients can still use Bonds and forward you their own report.

Licensed clinician? This round is for coaches. Join the waitlist, and we'll let you know when we open the portal to more practitioners.

5 pilot partner spots this round.

We select by fit. Apply in 2 minutes.

Join the pilot

Tell us about your coaching.

2 minutes. A person reads every one and replies. We're small enough that this is true.

Nothing to pay during the 30-day pilot, and no card needed. We send a payment link 7 days before it ends, and you can cancel anytime. We will never contact your clients. We only use your details to run the pilot. See our Privacy Policy.

Questions

What coaches ask us first.

What about privacy?

Your client chooses to connect with you on a separate consent screen in the app. You see only what they agree to share: their activity, the actions they took on, their check-ins and their report. Never their conversations. They can disconnect anytime from their profile. Once they do, you see only their name, marked Disconnected, and none of their past or new data. Bonds is a relationship skills app that uses AI. It isn't therapy, and it isn't for insurance-billed care. Whether it suits a particular client stays your call.

Do I need my client's permission?

Yes, and Bonds asks for it. Your client connects with you on their own consent screen, sees what they're sharing, and can disconnect anytime.

Who can join the pilot?

Relationship, dating and marriage coaches in the US and Canada, plus coaching practices and coach training programs. This round is for coaches. If you're a licensed clinician, join the waitlist and we'll tell you when we open up. If your practice bills health insurance, the portal isn't for you yet, and your clients can still forward you their own report.

What does the pilot cost?

Nothing for 30 days, starting the day you get portal access. No card needed. Then $49 a month for up to 10 clients, their Bonds access included, and your founding price stays locked for as long as you stay. We send a payment link 7 days before the pilot ends. If you don't pay, the portal closes and nothing is charged. It all sits in a 1-page pilot agreement, e-signed once.

Do my clients pay?

No. While they're connected to you, their access is included in your plan, for up to 10 clients.

Will Bonds coach my clients instead of me?

No. You set the direction, and Bonds helps them practice it between sessions. After a session, write one line on what they should work on next, and it becomes their next chapter. Bonds isn't therapy and doesn't replace your sessions.

What's actually in the summary?

7 parts, written as a letter to your client rather than a chart: what they shared in their own words, what might be worth exploring, their partner as they described them, what they've done in the app, what they committed to and whether they tried it, patterns we noticed (each one says what it's based on), and a few ideas to try next. It also says plainly that it was generated automatically and that sharing it is optional. A new report takes a little while to generate and can be requested every 2 days, so get it the day before a session. See the sample report on this page.

Does it interpret my client for me?

It offers observations and suggestions, so yes, in a limited sense. We'd rather you know that up front than discover it. It names patterns it sees and proposes small experiments, and it says on its face that it's automated and not a substitute for your judgment. It doesn't diagnose, and the interpretation is yours. You're the professional here. If it says something you disagree with, that disagreement is probably the most useful thing in the document.

Isn't this just another AI chatbot?

No, and the difference is the point. A general chatbot starts fresh, has no clinical grounding, and will happily agree with whatever your client tells it. Bonds is attachment-based, built with a clinical psychologist. It's structured practice, not open-ended conversation.

Who's a good fit for this?

Clients working on communication, conflict or closeness, whether they're in a relationship or dating someone. 1 person can start alone, and their partner doesn't need to join. It isn't for crisis situations or abuse, and it isn't for insurance-billed care.

What if I try it and don't like it?

Tell us why. At this stage that's the most useful thing we can get. Cancel anytime by email. If you don't pay at the end of the pilot, the portal closes and nothing is charged.

Ready to see it with your own clients?